Thursday, October 02, 2008

Happy Feast Day, Guardian Angel!


Today is your Guardian Angel’s Feast Day. Say a quick thank you for all the times your angel:

* Kept you out of trouble
* Helped you remember to turn off the iron
* Reminded you of God’s love
* Stayed up all night, pacing and praying, during the times when you thought you were all alone

Our angel, “brings us great help and consolation: they walk at our side and protect us in all circumstances, they defend us from danger, and to them we can turn at any moment. Many saints established bonds of real friendship with the angels, and numerous episodes testify to their assistance on particular occasions. Angels are sent by God 'to serve for the sake of those who are to inherit salvation' as the Letter to the Hebrews says, hence they are a real help to us on the pilgrimage towards the heavenly homeland." Pope Benedict XVI

And may Elizabeth's guardian angel protect her tomorrow as she tries to find a way to the hospital in Chiloteca for what could be either dengue or bronchitis.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

40 Days For Life

I just came back from a rally with about 200 people on a vacant lot across from Tulsa's Planned Parenthood. The Diocese bought the lot and there will be people praying there around the clock for 40 days. I'm looking forward to spending time there. It felt great to be surrounded by people who support something I feel so passionately about.

Anyway, whether or not your city has joined the 40 Days for Life campaign, please join me if you are of the mind to in praying for the women and children who have and will be damaged by this hateful practice.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Argentina March

A group of young adults in Argentina protect the Cathedral from protesters marching past as a part of a Pro-Abortion Rally. Really interesting and disturbing.



I love you guys, but I'm going to limit comments for awhile so I don't worry about starting a firestorm with my blog posts.

Friday, August 29, 2008

I'm So Excited!

What a great move! Sarah Palin was a brilliant choice for Vice President. She's going to energize the Republicans, especially the pro-life base. I went to the McCain website and volunteered (I also sent emails to many of you - no, not you. You.) GO MCCAIN / PALIN!!!!!!!!!!! Here's a picture of her and her husband with her youngest. He was born in April (mom was 44). After finding he had Down's Syndrome during her pregnancy, her doctor recommended an abortion. She responded that every life has value. Also (but this isn't the ONLY reason I support her) - she HAS FIVE KIDS!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Beautiful Honduras

Chris and I are in beautiful Honduras visiting Lizzy. It´s sooo wonderful to see her and to see exactly where she lives and the beautiful people she works with has been quite a blessing. We were here for 3 days Produce"> it´s the city where Liz lives. People asked us often if we liked Honduras, they had a hard time understanding why we thought it was better than the US in many ways, a better place to raise children especially. The children amazed me. And so did the women. Getting there was a trip and a half and getting to some of the people´s homes was even more of a trip. I´ll write more later, right now I´m in an internet cafe with Chris, Liz and 2 American girls we gave a ride to. They´re waiting to go.
We´re now headed here
Love you, and I hope the St. Mary´s reunion was wonderful!!

Oh well, blogging with Spanish directions isn´t working (and the keyboard is different!). The pics screwed up, will fix later. Adios!

Friday, July 04, 2008

Happy Birthday to Me!!

I tell everyone that this is the best day of the year to have a birthday. I get the day off every year, so does everyone else, and I don't have to bake a turkey or buy presents for everyone either!
God has been so good to me - beginning with blessing me with two wonderful parents. And four siblings who loved me. What fraction of the population can even say that? And then to have a wonderful marriage puts me in a smaller fraction and to have amazing kids who love me and love each other - an even smaller fraction. Thank you, Lord for the gift of life.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

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I found this on a stumbled upon Chinese blog.

Monday, June 16, 2008

More Thoughts About Tim Russert

I've been watching a lot of memorials. MSNBC is practically 24/7 Tim Russert. I watched the Tim-less Meet the Press, which started with an empty chair. This picture was taken after the show, Tim's son Luke near the chair. Matt Lauer's interview with Luke the next morning on Today was beautiful. And now I'm sitting in a Gillette WY hotel, traveling for work, listening to more on the MSNBC website. So you can gain some of the benefit from all this, here are some of the most interesting, poignant points and my thoughts:

**There was a lot of talk about his faith. He was a walking advertisement for the Catholic faith. And his friends' memorials were further inspirations for the faith.

**Of all the comments about his faith, there was only one mention of him going to daily Mass - here at Vanity Fair (where his wife writes), an article written by Christopher Hitchens, author of God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything. He said, "Tim was much more than a “practicing” Catholic: he was a devout and highly serious one who attended church every day."

**One of his best friends, Mike Barnicle, was asked to substitute for Chris Matthews on Hard Ball on Friday. Chris hadn't taken a day off since Thanksgiving and Mike never goes to Washington ("a town that gives me hives"), so the fact that he was there and visited with Tim minutes before he died, was considered by all to be very providential.

**The Washington NBC News office was imbued with his personality and love - they were a close-knit, loving family, much of which shown through during the coverage. Andrea Mitchell said the best way to describe him was that he played the role of a parish priest at the Washington bureau.

**Some people thought it was cruel, I thought it was fitting and profound, that this lover of fatherhood died on Father's Day weekend.

**There were so many stories about how he would find out about someone, especially children or older parents of employees, who was suffering and he would follow up with them. One son of an employee who had cancer and lost his hair received a hat from Tim and then he kept sending new hats as he traveled to different locations. Several employees who had babies talked about receiving notes from him written to the baby, welcoming him to the world and telling him how wonderful life is.

**His son asked if he could have his famous Florida! Florida! Florida! white board and Tim was really touched, until Luke said, "You know what that thing will bring in on eBay?"

Friday, June 13, 2008

In Memory... (UPDATED with link)

I can only hope that when I die I leave behind the love this man did. Love for his family, his God, his country, his co-workers and friends.

I left a message on www.nbcnews.com and there were already 574 pages of comments. Tim Russert was a devout Catholic and I saw him as a role model "for integrating one's faith and values with one's work in a secular environment that can often be hostile to what is sacred."

Saturday, June 07, 2008

It's Been Awhile

hasn't it? I've had nothing to say, actually. Which reminds me of a famous quote by someone I can't remember - "When you have nothing to say, it is better to keep one's mouth shut and look like an idiot than to open it and remove all doubt."

Sarah and I are sitting at the Cherry Street Coffee shop after hearing "George Wallace" speak at Chautauqua.
I love Chautauqua. I've gone every year since the year after it was established in Tulsa when we moved here in 1992. The most fascinating speaker this year was Malcolm X. It was so interesting to discover the people beneath the caricatures as they had been portrayed in the media. David always told me I should find out more about Malcolm X. Now that I have I want to find out more. I was especially interested in how God worked in the 1960's through both men who were believers with opposing world views. Did the U.S. culture need both to be able to effectively change? Did we need the compassion that surfaced as a result of seeing non-violent demonstrations with black men wearing sandwich boards reading: "I AM A MAN" as well as the fear that surfaced when we saw black separatists raising their fists and demanding "No More"?

In all, with a Chautauqua focused on the 60's, I'm amazed at the amount of social change that came about in such a short period of time without some sort of collapse - especially related to the civil rights movement. And now to see Barak Obama raising his hands in victory in the same state where Wallace's forces used hoses to keep back the demonstrators - pretty cool. I can't support him for numerous reasons, but pretty cool.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Nothing Special

...today. Just a picture of one of my favorite things...

Monday, May 19, 2008

The Story of a Song

The song had its beginnings in Chicago. Horatio G. Spafford was a successful attorney making his way in the rough-and-tumble world of a growing Chicago economy. He was a Christian who had no idea how soon his faith would be tested. In the late 1860's, tragedy struck Mr. Spafford with the death of his son. Then he was devastated by the great Chicago fire of 1871. He had invested heavily in real estate along the shores of Lake Michigan, and his holdings were wiped out by this disaster.

In 1873 Spafford was advised by doctors that his wife needed a change of location due to health problems. Spafford decided to sail over the Atlantic with his family, but a last-minute business emergency arose, and he was forced to send his wife and daughters ahead on schedule. His plan was to join them on another ocean crossing later. But on the fateful day of November 22nd, 1873, the ship his family had boarded was struck by an English ship and sank in 12 minutes. Mrs. Spafford survived, but all four daughters -- Tanetta, Maggie, Annie, and Bessie -- were among the 226 who drowned in the icy waters of the Atlantic. From Cardiff, Wales, his wife Anna sent him the now famous telegram, “Saved alone.”

Who among us can imagine the grief that filled Horatio Spafford's soul when word of the disaster reached him? Perhaps even fewer of us can imagine what it was like for Spafford to board another ship to cross the swirling waters alone, knowing that he would pass right over the watery graves of his four daughters on the way to meet his grieving wife.

But on that ship, the light of faith illuminated the darkness of Spafford's life. Out of the depths of his despair arose the certainty that God was in control, and that he would see his daughters again. In response to that inspiration, he penned this song as his ship passed the spot where his daughters died:

"It is Well With My Soul.”
When peace like a river attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll,
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
“It is well, it is well with my soul.”

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control:
That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate,
And has shed His own blood for my soul.

And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll,
The trump shall resound and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.

Ironically (or should we say mercifully and providentially?), Bliss himself died in a tragic train wreck shortly after writing this music. He survived the initial impact, but died when he went back into the flames in an unsuccessful attempt to rescue his wife. The Spafford family was together once again.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

A Great Pro-Life Rap Video

This is really beautiful. And hits home to an entirely different population than most pro-life efforts. Thanks, Lisa!

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Quote of the Day

"Each of us is willed, each of us is loved, [and] each of us is necessary." Pope Benedict XVI (as quoted by Pres Bush at the 5th annual Catholic Prayer Breakfast)

Friday, April 18, 2008

Again, thank you Lord.


Sex abuse victims who met with Pope Benedict speak on CNN. A more complete, but heart wrenching video version on CNN's website (if it doesn't pop up, click on each of the red links). From Amy Wellborn:
"he is, very pointedly, teaching the bishops how to be pastors. You cannot watch these people speak of their past suffering and what the Pope listening to them today accomplished without hoping and praying that in humility, those of his fellow pastors who have refused to listen and instead dedicated inestimable resources to re-victimizing victims are watching and learning from him.

And perhaps feeling something. A word Benedict has used time and time again these past days.

Shame

Friends from Steubenville might remember another very pastoral, loving man of God who worked tirelessly to bring some semblance of justice to a similar, yet less devastated group of Catholics.

A Snippet for Mary Margaret


This is a beautiful story for all, but especially for my sweetie Mary...
"A priest once asked her not how she does it, but why -- for 23 years, when she could have been elsewhere, when much of her flock cannot pray, or dance or sing. Where else, she asked him, could she walk each day among saints?"

Make sure to check out the video.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Thank you, Lord...

"Pope Benedict XVI held an unscheduled meeting with victims of priestly sexual abuse, shortly after pledging the church’s continued efforts to help heal the wounds caused by such acts.

The Vatican said the pope met privately in a chapel at the apostolic nunciature with “a small group of persons who were sexually abused by members of the clergy.” The group was accompanied by Cardinal Sean P. O’Malley of Boston, the epicenter of the abuse scandal.

“They prayed with the Holy Father, who afterward listened to their personal accounts and offered them words of encouragement and hope,” a Vatican statement said.

“His Holiness assured them of his prayers for their intentions, for their families and for all victims of sexual abuse,” it said."

Thursday, April 03, 2008

G. K.


I pretty much can't publish an entry without a picture anymore. So here's one of a man who is going to be a favorite author of mine once I read many of his 100 books. Chris and I went to a lecture at TU presented by the President of the Chesterton Society called, "The Intoxication of Existence: G.K. Chesterton and the Purpose of Existence." Chris had recently read his first Chesterton book and was speaking so highly of him, we both wanted to learn more. The lecture was fascinating and I think I'm in love. Chesterton was filled with joy and had a beautiful outlook on life. I wrote down some (not 100% accurate) quotes, so I'll share them with you:
"The reformer is always right about what is wrong. He is generally wrong about what is right."

"Progress should mean that we are always changing the world to fit the vision, instead we are always changing the vision."

"If there were no God, there would be no atheists."

"I'm not absent minded, just present-minded about something else."

"The things that make us most human are divine things, including imagination."

"Giving thanks is the highest form of thought."

"We should feel the intoxication of existence; it's a miracle that we are here at all because we could have easily not been."

"When we are close to God our art is full of eternity, with universal and everlasting appeal."

"The incarnation is the essence of all art; the love of God expressed perfectly."

"Good imagination restores, bad imagination destroys."

"There are times in Church history when the Church was wedded to the world, but she was always widowed... At times the Church has been dead, but it has a God who knows His way out of the grave."

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Theresa's House

Chris and I are in Oakland at Theresa's home. We'll be joined by Mary later tonight. We're all here to celebrate Theresa's confirmation at the Easter Vigil :)
Right now T is at work and we're waiting for our oatmeal to cool. I love her apartment, it's very peaceful, warm, and...Theresa. Tonight one of Theresa's good friends will be hosting a passover meal as a Noble tradition. We brought our seder prayer books, and our Holy Thursday cup and plate (garage sale finds - both with the Last Supper on them, each at a different sale). Later today Chris and I are going to take a walk to T's church to see if it's open for prayer and then for a walk by the lake.
Love you all! Have a Blessed Holy Week!

Thursday, March 13, 2008

A Wonderful Day

What a wonderful day. Actually even work was great. Then after work I met Chris and Sarah at Mass. Afterwards the three of us met our dear friends Skip and Frances Whitehurst for dinner (at Caz's Chowhouse - only in OK!). Intellectual stimulation for the whole evening. Beginning with dinner and talk about grammar, kids, education, and, well, um, TV shows . Then Sarah left for work and the four of us went to the Tulsa Gridiron. I had never gone before and neither had the Whitehursts, but we decided then and there to meet every year at the same place (but go to a better place for dinner!). It was absolutely hilarious, as good or better than the best Saturday Night Live skits. It consisted of musical mostly political parodies set to popular songs.
Some of my favorites...five people walking out onto a dark stage wrapped in blankets with flashlights lighting their faces and then singing to the tune of California's dreamin, "All the limbs are down, and the candles glow. I've been in the dark thanks to PSO. I'd be safe and warm if I weren't in OK. Power's for the dreamin' on such a wintry day."
Another favorite sung to the tune of "It's Not Easy Being Green - Kermit's song", called Ode to Obama. "It's not easy being green. Having to spend each day the resident rookie. When I think it could be so much nicer being white, a woman, or old, or something much more electable like that."
Then I came home to find that Sarah had cleaned the downstairs and had beautiful spiritual instrumentals playing. And I have most of tomorrow off. Sigh.

Pink Bikes!

Sarah is home for Spring Break. When she comes home activity begins. We usually exercise by "dancing like no one's watching" in the living room. That's fun. But yesterday she had another idea. Let's go bicycling at Riverside Park with the Free Pink Bikes. So cool and unlike Tulsa (I love Tulsa but I swear they can be frustrating when it comes to being...well, anything like Denver!).
We just used our credit card to release the bikes and there was no charge. There were plenty to choose from and they're well maintained so the bikes were a breeze (literally!) to ride. It was close to 70 degrees yesterday and sunny. We rode FOUR MILES! What a beautiful way to end the day!!! Thank you, Sar Bear!!

Saturday, March 08, 2008

What should the Pope say?


Halleluia! The question I've been waiting for was asked by a Catholic publication - America. What should the Pope say when he visits America? Here is the answer I submitted:

I would find it difficult to accept if the Pope did not speak DIRECTLY about the sex abuse crisis. As a faithful Catholic I need to hear him say, on behalf of the Church,

"To those Catholics who have been devastated by the sins of those who claimed to represent Christ, an apology from me as your Shepherd is required by justice and charity, but seems to be wholly inadequate. Nothing I say will remove the grievous harm that was caused to those of you who trusted in your priests and whose innocence was ravaged. I pray, though, that my profound mourning and heart felt sorrow on behalf of Mother Church, by the grace of God will settle upon each of you as a soothing balm for your grieving souls."

Thursday, March 06, 2008

No Country for Old Men


Well, we did actually see No Country for Old Men after all. Very interesting. As I expected from the Coen Brothers - extremely well crafted. But if I had it to do over again I wouldn't go see it.

The Coens and Javier Bardem, who played the serial killer, portrayed evil in such a masterful way it was unsettling. And the message was that evil is powerful and unstoppable. Also unsettling. Despairing, too, but for the very last sequence where Tommy Lee Jones recounts a dream. That's where the hope was - but only hope in a heavenly way. Earth was left to evil.

So. Needless to say, you wouldn't want to bring the kiddos, but it wasn't as bad as Gone Baby Gone - Chris and I were trying to figure out if that movie was more or less depressing than Deer Hunter!

Friday, February 29, 2008

Who Wants to Move to Denver?



















I just spent a day in Denver with 4 co-workers. We were all here for a meeting and our boss let us take an extra day for "team building" (we decided it was our version of the executive golf outing).
We rode the Ski Train up to Winter Park and spent the day shopping, eating and generally having a great time. We laughed so hard my cheeks hurt!
I was also able to go to Mass during the week at the most beautiful church - The Church of the Holy Ghost in downtown Denver. Here is a picture of it, which doesn't begin to do it justice. I gasped when I walked in because it's so beautiful - rich, dark wood throughout - especially behind the altar.
Downtown Denver is amazing. People walking around at all hours, a free trolley that goes up and down the main street, which is an enormous outdoor mall. And here's something I saw this trip for the first time.

It's the Denver Convention Center. Sure beats our Tulsa Driller!

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Flamingos on their Heads


This is a picture of the wonderful guy who lives in the Tulsa area who was rumored to show up at our 100 year celebration party for my employer Williams. And. Well. It was a rumor.

He tends to do cool things like that so the rumor wasn't a crazy one. What was sad was the really wonderful party that was put on, but some of us were disappointed who had heard the rumor! They had it on the first two floors of our building...
which I wasn't really thrilled about until they started setting up for it and everyone started buzzing (that's probably where the rumor started). Then we got there and the number 100 was lit up with window lights on the building, there were search lights, and the two floors were transformed into a lovely entertainment area with food and drink stations throughout, a karaoke game, live non-Garth music, people walking around with flamingos on their heads (you had to be there). We had a great time. And because people were walking around the whole time rather than sitting together at large tables, Chris ended up meeting everyone I work with.

Yesterday we spent part of the day at the Holland Hall book fair - wow was that a good time! 1000's of books. Then we came home and read in front of the fire :) Last night we tried to go see No Country for Old Men but the projector was broken at the theater so we came home instead and we're going this afternoon. I want to see it before the Oscars tonight so I know more about it. I love the Oscars. I think the only time I've missed it in over 35 years is when The Passion was snubbed and I boycotted (I bet they missed me too!).

Friday, February 15, 2008

Carolina Moon Keeps Shining


I found out last night that my sweet, wonderful goddaughter / niece is engaged to a wonderful man - the love of her life.

CONGRATULATIONS CAROLINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Holiness - A Quite Unmerited Gift

Excuse the loooonnnngggg post, but yesterday one of my kids was telling me about how difficult it was to hear about the sins of the Catholic Church. We talked about it for awhile, with me offering my inadequate response that the church is like a person who has sinned, who has a sad history, just like all of us. Well, today I heard Fr. Groeschel mention that Benedict XVI (when he was Joseph Ratzinger) addressed just this point in "An Introduction to Christianity". When I asked Chris if we had a copy tonight he said, "Yes, it's in Liz's car." Well, here it is - so timely considering the sex scandals, but written before they came to light. It's long, but well worth it... (love you, kiddo!)

The Second Vatican Council itself ventured to the point of speaking no longer of merely the holy Church, but of the sinful Church, and the only reproach it incurred was that of still being far too timorous; so deeply aware are we all of the sinfulness of the Church...The centuries of the Church's history are so filled with human failure that we can quite understand Dante's ghastly vision of the Babylonian whore sitting in the Church's chariot; and the dreadful words of William of Auvergne, Bishop of Paris in the 13th century... that the barbarism of the Church must make everyone who saw it go rigid with horror: "Bride is she no more, but a monster of frightful ugliness and ferocity."

There is no theory in existence which could refute such ideas by mere reason, just as conversely these ideas themselves do not proceed from mere reason but from the bitterness of a heart which may perhaps have been disappointed in its high hopes and now, in the pain of wronged love, can see only the destruction of its hopes. How, then, are we to reply? In the last analysis one can only confess why one can still love this Church in faith, why one still dares to recognize in the distorted features the countenance of the holy Church. Nevertheless, let us start from the objective elements. ..the word "holy" does not apply in the first place to the holiness of human persons but refers to the divine gift which bestows holiness in the midst of human unholiness. The church is not called "holy" in the Creed because its members, collectively and individually, are holy, sinless men - this dream, which appears afresh in each century, has no place in the waking world of our text, however movingly it may express a human longing which man will never abandon until a new heaven and a new earth really grant him what this age will never give him.

Even at this point we can say that the sharpest critics of the Church in our time secretly live on this dream and, when they find it disappointed, bang the door of the house shut again and denounce it as a deceit. But to return to our argument, the holiness of the Church consists in that power of sanctification which God exerts in it in spite of human sinfulness...grace which abides even in face of man's unfaithfulness.

...But it is really and truly the holiness of the Lord that becomes present in it and that chooses again and again as the vessel of its presence - with a paradoxical love - the dirty hands of men. It is holiness that radiates as the holiness of Christ from the midst of the Church's sin...The existing interplay of God's loyalty and man's disloyalty which characterizes the structure of the Church is grace in dramatic form...

Let us go a step further. In the human dream of a perfect world, a holiness is always visualized as untouchability by sin and evil, as something unmixed with the latter... the aspect of Christ's holiness that upset his contemporaries was the complete absence of (a) condemnatory note - fire did not fall on the unworthy... On the contrary, this holiness expressed itself precisely as mingling with the sinners whom Jesus drew into his vicinity; as mingling to the point where he himself was made "to be sin" and bore the curse of the law in execution as a criminal - complete community of fate with the lost. He has drawn sin to himself, made it his lot and so revealed what true "holiness" is - not separation but union, not judgment, but redeeming love. Is the church not simply the continuation of God's deliberate plunge into human wretchedness; is it not simply the continuation of Jesus' habit of sitting at table with sinners, of his mingling with the misery of sin to the point where he actually seems to sink under its weight?

Only he who has experienced how, regardless of changes in her ministers and forms, the church raises men up, gives them a home and a hope, a home that is hope - the path to eternal life - only he who has experienced this knows what the Church is, both in days gone by and now...A slammed door can, it is true, become a sign that shakes up those inside. But the idea that one can do more in isolation than in fellowship with others is just as much of an illusion as the notion of a church of "holy people", instead of a "holy Church" that is holy because the Lord bestows holiness on her as a quite unmerited gift.

The First Week of Lent



On Theresa's blog she mentioned that Sarah called to wish me a "Happy Ash Wednesday". I love that. I think she's the one who, when a friend asked her what her favorite holiday was answered "Good Friday".

I know why. It's the richness, the depth, the beauty of the liturgy. Again, as Theresa said, this year she "entering into the liturgical rhythm of the church" as Lent begins.

Already it's been such a blessing for me. It's there for us all - a deeper connection to God, a richer understanding of our mortality, a humility that comes from his gentle conviction (when we expected harsh condemnation) - all we have to do is enter into the quieter, more relective "rhythm".

Monday, February 04, 2008

This is so cool...

Now, first you have to watch the Super Bowl commercial below. OK, done? Now watch this one - it must be the result of a flash mob.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

Super Saturday and counting...

Chris and I went to dinner last night with Tim and Leslie Wells. We left the restaurant thinking 2 hours had gone by when it was really 3 1/2. We had so much fun and laughed so hard the time just flew. Leslie and I talked about how returning to work while kids are still at home is a major adjustment. And what usually ends up getting affected are friendships. I suppose that's better than the kids getting neglected, but I don't want that to happen any longer now that I have more time.

I read a really interesting article in the Tulsa World today that gave me such hope. Booker T black male students have begun a group called Men of Power and they're speaking at KIPP and mentoring students. THAT should be broadly publicized. KIPP schools are another hopeful thing. I had the privilege of working with the staff a couple of years ago - they have an amazing vision.

And another interesting article on the Clintons vs. Obama. This Tuesday will be fun, especially since OK is one of the Super Tuesday states.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

I Love Elections

I watched my first conventions (from gavel to gavel) when I was in kindegarten. I remember back then nominations were often so close we didn't know who was going to be nominated until the convention actually took place. And I think we have these types of nominations again - at least on the Democratic side.

I'm not a Hilary fan. I wish Obama had a different stand on a number of issues because I really like his leadership style. I usually vote Republican but the first time I voted that way was in 1980 and Chris had to hold my hand while I checked the name on the absentee ballot - it was traumatic :) I call myself a radical moderate. I'm so tired of the hateful rhetoric on both sides, that I'm in a way intolerant myself! I'm also very purple. Anti-death-penalty, pro-life, anti-war, anti-big-government, pro-traditional-marriage - purple and proud of it.

But anyway, back to the election - and especially Hilary. She's really screwing up - which is so interesting to watch because I've always seen the Clintons as VERY politically savvy. Bill is playing WAY too large a role - even if he was 100% loved by all Americans his role is too large for a former president who is trying to place his wife in the spotlight for her own election. This political cartoon captured what I was thinking so perfectly.



What are they thinking? Plus she's been attacking Obama with the silliest things - like for saying something positive about Reagan. When people see a politician slinging such impotent arrows they end up knowing more about the slinger than the target. Another screw up... she's airing an ad in Oklahoma that criticizes Bush's connection to the big bad oil companies! I predict that will play well with about 10% of the population here.

Anyway, expect more politics as the months go on because it's fascinating me like it hasn't in years. I can't wait to see how silly Guiliani does in Florida - what was HE thinking???

Love you all!

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

The Kiddos (with sweetie pie!)





I love this picture. Lisa sent it. Thanks, Lisa!

Monday, January 14, 2008

Moms

See my friend Lisa's wonderful tribute to her mom on her blog.

It made me think of my mom and how much I love her and miss her. She would be SO proud of all her children and grandchildren. Love you, Mom!

Also - to those who enjoyed the story about St. Josephine - see the quote from Pope Benedict that I added to the post.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Patience

Chris and I were just talking last night about how we won't need patience in heaven. Because God's actions will not seem "slow" to us. We'll be totally in sync with Him and His will.

But Lord, I sure need patience on earth. This took WAY TOO LONG...

Saturday, January 05, 2008

St. Josephine Bakhita



Read a beautiful story about how this saint inspired a white supremacist murderer on death row to become a devout Catholic who now leads other prisoners to raise money for children in Sudan.

Added on January 12:
I'm reading "Spe Salvi", Pope Benedict's encyclical on hope and came across a beautiful passage about St. Josephine:

He tells about her horrible encounters with cruel masters since she was 9 years old, and then...

"Up to that time she had known only masters who despised and maltreated her, or at best considered her a useful slave. Now, however, she heard that there is a “paron” above all masters, the Lord of all lords, and that this Lord is good, goodness in person. She came to know that this Lord even knew her, that he had created her—that he actually loved her. She too was loved, and by none other than the supreme “Paron”, before whom all other masters are themselves no more than lowly servants. She was known and loved and she was awaited. What is more, this master had himself accepted the destiny of being flogged and now he was waiting for her “at the Father's right hand”. Now she had “hope” —no longer simply the modest hope of finding masters who would be less cruel, but the great hope: “I am definitively loved and whatever happens to me—I am awaited by this Love. And so my life is good.”

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Sooner or Later


Our poor Sooners (Univ of OK) lost their Bowl game last night. I'm sitting here at work and it feels like I walked into a funeral home. One co-worker said he thought about taking a bereavement day today. Like Chris said, it's not "just football" in Oklahoma.

I am inspired by Mary Ellen's camping plans for the year. I was thinking just yesterday that this might be the first time we actually plan our days off at the beginning of the year. Last year I kind of accidentally lost some and THAT is not acceptable.

Have a wonderful day y'all (including those in mourning).

Monday, December 31, 2007

Poetry from the Inner ENFP

Inner cyclones assaulted her,
caused her to tumble inside out.
Look up, she told herself! Look toward the Sun!
Yes, yes I see a glimmer of eternity.
What’s that noise?
Turn, turn, slowly turn
Back to navels and gray that matters.
Eternity slips away
But wait.
He’s there and will not leave…
Forever steady, holding that glimmer,
Knowing she will strive, strive, strive to return.
There are those who gaze continually.
They are no closer to His heart.

Sunday, December 30, 2007

The Fam ( - Sweetie Pie)






Here are the kiddos (minus our beloved Liz) on Christmas Eve after Mass. Go to Theresa's Blog (www.tmarie.blogspot.com) for more pics (click on the picture of the kids holding Liz's picture).

We brought Theresa to the airport on Thursday and her flight was postponed and not expected to leave Denver for Oakland due to weather. So she stayed until today! It was so nice to have her here longer.

Love you guys!!

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Christmas Update

I wish I had pictures to post, but they're stuck inside Theresa's camera.

We're all sitting at Nordaggio's coffee shop, keeping Sarah company while she works. We're all working on computers, reading and talking - except Mary, she's sleeping (except when we all laugh at her, which wakes her up!).

We're about to leave to take Theresa to the airport, which is very sad. She has to work tomorrow, which is crazy.

We had a wonderful Christmas - we went to Mass on Christmas Eve then read our Christmas Chimes story. On Christmas morning we all woke up kind of late so the eggnog wasn't ready (wasn't even purchased!!) and the monkey bread hadn't been started yet, but oh well, it was wonderful anyway. Then after our ham dinner we watched the Christmas Story and T, Sarah and I went to the adoration chapel. I can't believe I went along with this, but we then all came home and watched the SIMPSON'S movie. Anyone who knows me knows how much I DON'T like the Simpsons, but the kids talked us into it and guess what, I loved it! I laughed and laughed.

Yesterday we went to the Whitehursts for games but we ended up enjoying our conversation so much we ended up talking instead.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Jesse Trees, Noble Trees, and Family Trees

When the kids come home we end up talking about so many interesting topics. I learn so much. And sometimes I cringe, like when Sarah told me about the 450 party at Swarthmore. She and I are sitting in a coffee shop right now while she finishes a final paper that's due by midnight.

We put up the Jesse Tree today - a pretty nice specimen collected in our own back yard! (There are benefits to ice storms - we usually have to go hunting for just the right one.) We string it with lights, hang it from the ceiling by the windows in the dining room and then, one by one, hang from it symbols of the Old Testament that were precursors to Jesus, the root of Jesse. We found some of the ornaments that the kids had made when they were kids had molded this year - not sure why because we stored them the same way we do each year. Sad.

It's ideally hung up the first Sunday of Advent, but oh well - we just got our tree up too. Putting up the tree on December 18th is actually a Shea tradition because we used to put it up on Mary Ellen's birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SIS!

Sarah arrived home today, following David and Mary who arrived last week. And Theresa comes tomorrow. And Elizabeth Clare whom we talk about constantly because we miss her so much will celebrate Christmas this year with those she is serving through the Peace Corps in Honduras. We talked to her three times in the last three days which is wonderful - she usually only calls once each week or two. She's doing such a great job. WE LOVE YOU, LIZ!

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Blessed Light and Heat!



HURRAY! The power's on!! The whole neighborhood lit up Thursday night except us. That was a bad day. Especially because we knew the people who were one-off's were at the bottom of the priority list with some people at work hearing they may go until Christmas without power.

There was also a run on electricians because anyone who had damage on their house electrically had to have it fixed before PSO would turn on the house power. We weren't sure why the power wasn't working, but it looked like a house issue. Fortunately we had the name of a wonderful electrician who has done work for us before. We called him Thursday night and he came Friday after he got out of work. He said the reason we weren't turned on was because the electric box on the house was tilted a little and PSO probably thought it was a safety issue. Oh boy, I thought, we'll get it straightened and then wait til Christmas for PSO.

Anyway, the electrician fixed the box and then said, "Don't tell PSO, but they left their box open and I'll turn you back on." HURRAY! When he was finished and heard us cheering I said, "How much do we owe you, $1000?" He said "No, just $35."

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

From the Ice Castle



OK, let's see if this works. I have never successfully uploaded a pic before to the blog. I wish I had a pic of our house, but this will have to do since it's the only one I could find on the web.

We're in the middle of an ice storm, been without power for 2 days. I called Mary Ellen this morning and said, "Help me I'm being held captive by the Ice Princess in her castle!" I'm at work now - got here at 5:30 - where there's heat! And light!

Chris and I were thinking a lot last night about the New Orleans residents. We pulled into our neighborhood where it was getting dark and looked so desolate with trees bent in half, falling into the street, etc. It was depressing to think of going into a dark, cold house. (We had FINALLY found some fire wood - a man and his kids selling it by the side of the road. It's so ironic because there's firewood all around us but with 250,000 looking for chain saws they're a little hard to come by.) We have only experienced this for 2 days, with a lot less devastation. What must it have been like for NOL? And now?

A tip for any who would like one: run, don't walk, to your nearest Home Depot and buy a crank up radio/flashlight combo. What a relief to be able to use it without worrying about having to try to find batteries or a plug to recharge it, etc. We had one in our emergency box, along with all the other stuff that's been stored there since September 12, 2001!

Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Violence

It was a sad day today. A friend of Mary's, who she visited when home for Thanksgiving, was murdered by her boyfriend (whom Mary also knew) and he then committed suicide. I am so angry at the violence in the world, in our hearts, in our families. Mary has had to experience it twice - the first time when she was in 3rd grade.

I love you, Mary. I've left messages with all the bro and the sis's - we're all praying for you.

Love,
Mom

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Thank You!

What a wonderful Thanksgiving! It started on Tuesday when Mary came home! Then Wednesday I took off work and just totally relaxed. Mary and I shopped a little then later (11:30) we picked up Sarah at the airport! We stopped at IHOP on the way home and we stayed up WAAAAYYY too late.

This morning I woke up too early! But I was so joyful, I wanted to wake up so I wouldn't waste it sleeping. Chris and I went to Mass at 9 and then came home and made sweet potatoes (he makes the best) and lots of pies. At 3ish we all went to our good friends the Wells for Thanksgiving dinner - 30 people all together at their house. It was so nice to see them. We brought home pie - YIKES! We started watching Psycho (what a wonderful holiday film) but I forgot how boring it is in the beginning. Everyone has wandered away!

Our good friends the Whitehursts just called from Stanford where they're visiting their daughter. We usually spend Thanksgiving with them so they wanted us to know they were thinking of us. Thank you God for wonderful friends!

Thankful is definitely what I'm feeling today. God has blessed us abundantly. I am so grateful for our family, for our shared faith, for our extended families and how supportive and loving they are, for all the ways God has shown us his love this last year.

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Sarah, Glenda, and Fares Oh My!

I saw Sarah today! I'm in NYC for a conference and she bussed (that's kissed isn't it?) bused into town from Phillie. We rode on the subway, shopped, went to dinner with my co-workers and then went to see the broadway play Wicked (about the Wicked Witch of the West and Glenda the Good Witch). Such fun.

Then we came back to Williams' corporate apartment (it has "Helmsley" in its name and we could all see why) and slept together in a Murphy twin bed and talked til we fell asleep.

Life is beautiful.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Wrestling a Mantilla

G'day, friends. I thought I would blog as my husband watches the Psycho remake. Why would someone want to remake a classic? I just peaked over and saw the scene where the policeman is stabbed at the top of the stairs. They used the same camera angle as Hitchcock. Now, if you don't think you can improve upon it, just don't do it.

Now for my title. Chris and I visited our wonderful Benedictine Monastery this weekend - only about 45 minutes away. I love this place. As we drive onto the property I feel as if I'm entering a chapel. Seeing sheep graze and an occasional monk walking with his hood on and head low, praying the day's liturgical prayers with about 30 men chanting Gregorian... priceless. I love it and I thank God for it.

But now for the mantilla. Most women wear mantillas for Mass. It's said in Latin and a lot of the people who go there could be considered what I call Rad-Trad (radical traditionalists). Well, I'm not a rad-trad and don't want to be, so during the four years we've been going to the monastery I've never worn a mantilla.

Well, this time I decided I would. I decided that there's a humility before God involved in covering one's head that can only be a good thing. I decided that I could really use that and so I wore a mantilla to express that desire to God. Well, you know what? It felt pretty darn good. And while I sat there soaking in the chant, I thought about how some of my resistance was due to the gender-thing. Why do women have to wear a hat? But then I remembered that when I was young, men had to remove their hats when they entered church. That was when men wore hats every day. They were asked to go "hat in hand" to God.

It's sad. Men don't have a way to express their humility before God anymore. It's funny how it all turned around in my mind. I found myself feeling sorry for them and wishing they could wear prayer shawls or something to experience the same thing I did the day I wrestled a mantilla and the mantilla won.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Steam, as in Blowing Off

The bishops of California are asking for contributions to cover the combined almost 1 billion dollars in sexual abuse settlements. No. That's what I would tell them. Did the laymen and women in the pews have anything to do with this horror? No. Do I feel that this is an unjust punishment for the church? No. Does the church need to reverberate with the impact of these financial blows to give it a fraction of the pain that was caused to these children? Yes. Let it reverberate. And yes, the financial impacts will cause much pain. Fewer people will be served. The dioceses where the most sin occurred will need to pare back to the bare bones. And that is how it should be. Pare back until you have left only what you started with - the people. And maybe then, dear leaders, you will appreciate the gift God blessed you with, the sheep God intended you to shepherd, to put first above church politics, clericalism, and fear of legal implications.

Friday, October 19, 2007

Sitting in a Forest of Cubes

I really should be working!!! It's Friday of Fall Break and I'm one of about 10 people on the whole floor. I've been reading emails, blogs and hoping 5:00 (or 3, or 2) comes quickly. Really, I haves tons to do and I want to take advantage of the quiet. But first let me say hello, have a lovely day, and "allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love" - St. Theresa.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Colorado Meanderings

I'm sitting in the Grand Junction Colorado airport waiting for my flight home. Unfortunately, I've missed a whole day of Mary being home for Fall Break (finally a child who goes to college close enough to return home for visits!!!!). But she and I are going to go to Shades of Brown when I arrive in Tulsa to get some coffee and catch up on things.

The ride to the airport was gorgeous. Some mountains can be described as majestic. The mountains here are more cozy - they're rolling hills that look like they're covered with different colored and textured fabrics.

We have an hour to wait and I'm trying not to listen to every minute detail being blared on the TV about a student who shot teachers and students in Cleveland. I listened long enough to know no one died, but I feel bad when I ignore things like that. Why? I guess because if I ignore it, that means it's become common place. And it has, hasn't it?

Love you guys (uhhh, those I know, anyway)!!

Sunday, October 07, 2007

Joy and Justice

Today was a joy-filled day. I don't know why, it was pretty hum-drum, but joy was in my heart.

Msgr gave an amazing homily today about our purpose in life - to know, love and serve God. After the Gospel was read, about the master who, rather than feeding the hungry servant who had just returned from the field, expected him to wait on those at the table, I turned to Chris and said, "I think this makes 3 difficult Gospels in a row!" (I had noticed a woman in front of me who seemed to be Muslim and I was hoping for a sermon about God's infinite love.)

Well, Monsignor didn't flinch. He drove right to the point, and it seemed that everyone there, including many children, were hanging on his every word. (We are so blessed.) And it was very timely for me because I had been thinking about this very thing lately. I seem way too casual about putting God off. He is love, goodness, mercy, wisdom... but he is also justice, awesome and fear-inspiring.

Like Sarah said, "it's not about me". And then she stopped. Because to put it into words doesn't at all do it justice.

Thursday, October 04, 2007

OK, I'll Update....

I've received comments about not updating, so here goes...

I've had just delightful discussions with my kiddos over the last week or so. I just hung up with Sarah. The joy she was immersed in when she was with the Missionaries of Charity yesterday had spilled over into her life and she passed it along to me. I really needed it at the moment too. Thank you Sarah! See her blog for more detail on her wonderful day. She was able to meet Mother Teresa's replacement.

Please pray for Elizabeth as she adjusts to her Peace Corps assignment in Honduras. She loves it there, but it's been difficult at times. It's easier for me to see God work in my children's lives than in mine. I'm so confident of His love for them and how difficulties get woven into the tapestry of their lives as strengths. Chris and I were talking about it last night and said, "If there weren't difficulties she would return in 2 years the same Lizzie who went there, only with a deeper tan and better Spanish!"

Friday, September 28, 2007

Beautiful Letter

I read this beautiful letter to the editor in the USA Today when I was traveling this week:

Soldiers saved by fallen comrades should learn to just live

Kimberly Schliesmann - Chicago

I felt compelled to write to USA TODAY after reading the profoundly moving article about soldiers who sacrifice their safety and their lives so their comrades can live ("In Iraq, coping after a hero dies saving you," Cover story, News, Thursday).

I want to thank USA TODAY for this portrait of the sacrifice these soldiers have made. I also want to offer some words of comfort to those who have survived this kind of ordeal.

I was struck by how the survivors in the article talked of struggling to live lives "worthy" of the sacrificial act of their fellow soldiers. However noble this is, worthiness is not what these soldiers died for. They died not so that their fellow comrades could live an extraordinary life, but so that their comrades in arms could live through the ups and downs of the ordinary life we all live. They died because they loved their comrades.

I offer these words out of love and compassion. I also had someone die for me, though I was not there to witness it.

Jesus Christ died for me on the cross. Just like the surviving soldiers who think of their comrades every day, I think of Christ and his sacrifice every day. My life has changed because of my awareness, acceptance and gradual understanding of that sacrifice. I know I will never be worthy, but I know that is OK. I do my best to serve and love those around me because of the profound gratitude I feel toward Christ. I fail a lot, but I do my best. Accepting this has brought me peace and strength. Understanding that I could never really do anything worthy of such a profound sacrifice is humbling, but it is healthy.

I wish with all my heart that at some point, these soldiers will know that it is enough simply to live with gratitude.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

God in Las Vegas

Who would've thunk it? The time here has been amazing. The highlight so far has been spending a fortune (at least to this cheapie) to go see Love - the Cirque de Soleil show based on Beatles songs. It was created by the founder of the Cirques who was a friend of George. It was fully supported by Paul, Ringo, Yoko and George's wife so I figured it would be well done.

What an absolute amazing show. Beauty, joy, right-in-the-center-of-it-all experience, wonderful memories, whimsy, innocence, love. When we walked out Ginger said she didn't mean to be sacrilegious, but she felt the same way she did when we left the monastery after our weekend visit. I fully understood - when art reaches a pinnacle it touches God. The experience was truly transcendent. Then to top it all off, as folks left the theater we all started singing spontaneously along to the "Get Back" song on the speaker.

I never thought I would say I was glad I came to Las Vegas!

See a snippet of it here.

Saturday, September 08, 2007

Sin City Here I Come.

I'm so not thrilled about going to Las Vegas for a week - a seminar for work. I only went one time before (for work) and hated it. But the good news is I will be going to see Theresa on Friday and staying until Sunday. I'm REALLY looking forward to that. I'm also looking forward to seeing a Cirque de Soliel built around Beatles songs.
See the trailer here.

David? Are you out there? I answered your awkward comment in the Mother Teresa post :)

Friday, August 31, 2007

Tiny and Short

Sorry about the little tiny print on the Mother Teresa post. I'm not sure how to change that.

I'm at Nordaggio's so that Sarah can say goodbye to Amy before she leaves for college. I came home from work early to spend time with her before she leaves. All the kids seem to be right where God wants them. What a blessed peace that gives me. God is good.

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Mother Teresa

The priest who published Mother Teresa's writings after she asked that he burn them - I was almost at the point of believing he had made a tragic mistake. The media cannot communicate anything effectively that is more profound than a sound bite. One of the reasons the Church is so often misunderstood is because she speaks in a way that is, although simple, very complex. So JPII is accused of being a prude when he asks husbands not to lust after their wives. Muslims kill a nun in response to the media's summary of Benedict's quote regarding Islamic violence. And Mother Teresa is perceived to be one abandoned by her Lover when her thoughts and writings are published.

Fortunately, the Time article seemed to grasp the foundational concept of the blessing called suffering. Here is another example of a great analysis from Mere Commensts


The world thought it knew her, and thought it could dismiss her charity with a smile at her naive belief and childish enthusiasm. But it cannot do that now, so it dismisses her by claiming her as one of its own -- not seeing that Mother Teresa's life looms as an even greater and more inexplicable mystery for those who say in their hearts, "There is no God."

It is not a mysterious thing, after all, that a young and enthusiastic person should become disillusioned after a month or two of the squalor of the Black Hole of Calcutta. People lose their faith all the time — and people gain their faith all the time, and often they are the same people. What is mysterious is that after her visions of Jesus ceased, after all the inner consolations were taken away, after the locutions, what my evangelical brethren call “words of knowledge,” fell silent, still Mother Teresa clung to Christ. She retained her faith without the emotional accompaniments (and here let married Christians take heed). She continued to serve the poor of Calcutta even though the nagging little viper at her shoulder must have whispered to her, constantly, “This is all absurd.” Let us be absolutely clear about this: outside of the ambit of Christian culture, no one goes to Calcutta. What Mother Teresa did, no one does, not even for a year, without having been influenced by the message and example of Christ. And to live there for good, no one does at all without the virtue of faith...

Here with Mother Teresa we have.. a great goodness united to quiet suffering, unspeakable patience, and a kind of bright and steely charity, for how easy would it have been for Mother to try to salve her sores by “sharing” her feelings with her fellow sisters? A worldly man may enter the Peace Corps because he “believes” in it and wishes to do good; he will not stay there one month after he has ceased to believe. Mother Teresa never ceased to believe, even in and through the silence.

Dubiety is inseparable from the human condition. We must waver, because our knowledge comes to us piecemeal, sequentially, in time, mixed up with the static of sense impressions that lead us both toward and away from the truth we try to behold steadily. The truths of faith are more certain than the truths arrived by rational deduction, says Aquinas, because the revealer of those truths speaks with ultimate authority, but they are less certain subjectively, from the point of view of the finite human being who receives them yet who does not, on earth, see them with the same clarity as one sees a tree or a stone or a brook. It should give us Christians pause to consider that when Christ took upon himself our mortal flesh, he subjected himself to that same condition. He did not doubt; His faith was steadfast; yet He did feel, at that most painful of moments upon the Cross, what it was like to be abandoned by God. He was one with us even in that desert, a desert of suffering and love. Nor did the Gospel writers — those same whom the world accuses on Monday of perpetrating the most ingenious literary and theological hoax in history, and on Tuesday of being dimwitted and ignorant fishermen, easily suggestible — refuse to tell us of that moment.

In her love of Christ — and the world does not understand Christ, and is not too bright about love, either — Mother Teresa did not merely take up His cross and follow him. She was nailed to that Cross with him. She was one with Him — it was His greatest and most terrible gift — at the moment when he cried out to His Father, and the worldly Jews beneath mistook the name of God for Elijah. We Christians must trust that she is also one with Him now too, sharing in the glory of His triumph over darkness and the grave. “See,” He says, encouraging us to persevere and be fearless, “I have overcome the world.”

Vick Sick

There is the Vick scandal, which is outrageous. And now, in Tulsa, there is an animal rescue that seemed to be a great organization, but was dumping dead carcasses at the City Pound and sheltering dogs and cats that were skin and bones. Very sad.

But sadder still is the din and length of the outrage expressed - almost unparalleled. I can't think of another star scandal that has received such a loud and unanimous negative reaction. Even murder has not caused this kind of outrage. What has happened to our society that the only immoral act that we can all agree upon is animal cruelty?

If we labeled the full term baby who has his brains sucked out before forcing him through the birth canal a "puppy" would he receive more compassion?

Thursday, August 23, 2007

And Then Full Again

Sarah returned home from Central America today! She'll only be home for a week before she heads off for school, but boy was it good to see her. She had such a blessed time there. She, Chris and I went to dinner together after I returned from Denver and she joyfully and animatedly told us about the wonderful people she met and the ways she was touched by God. Thank you, Lord.

Monday, August 20, 2007

The Nest is Now Empty

It was sadder than I thought it would be. I was OK until we reached home and I saw Mary's stuff on the dining room table - remnants of her cutting pictures out and putting them in frames.

Chris cooked a steak dinner for us to celebrate our new beginning as a couple. What a sweet thing to do. I'm sure glad I don't have to worry about HIM going off to college!

Friday, August 17, 2007

What A Day

And it's ending with me at the computer, waiting for Mary to come home for her last night, listening to a digital stop watch beeping every 15 minutes because I can't figure out how to deactivate it.

Actually it started yesterday when I realized I had forgotten something VERY important, then sat in a meeting which I was supposed to leave early to attend my boss's boss's boss's meeting - "shit" I said to my staunch Baptist co-worker when I realized I was 30 minutes late. I decided to call in instead of walk in late. So I sat and listened to accolades being given about the woman who replaced me in my old job. Today, after working 3 hours on a powerpoint that crashed without hope of recovery, I decided that the self-pity that I've been trying to overcome is really quite comforting. I've decided to keep it for warmth.

But then I read my kids' blogs and thought I would cry from happiness, and received a phone call from my oldest, sharing about our days and the advice she had given her sister. And I decided that life is indeed beautiful.

One of the things we talked about was how differently God's view of life is - usually exactly the opposite of the world's values. What would the world's Beatitudes be?

Blessed are the rich for theirs is the life of luxury, without having to know of the existence of another world.

Blessed are those who do not suffer, for they shall live life invincibly, in need of no Other.

Blessed are the confident and proud, for they shall evoke fear in the poor of spirit.

Blessed are the thin and beautiful for they shall be lusted after and bedded frequently.

Blessed are the drippingly sarcastic, for they shall remain untouched by piercing truth.

Blessed are the sophisticated, for they shall mimic maturity.

Blessed are those who evoke no criticism, for they shall be popular.

Blessed are those who live life without God, for they shall be called fun.

Monday, August 13, 2007

Tiger Woods

That man is amazing. The PGA was held in Tulsa this year and it was hotter than blazes out there all week. Temperatures over 100 and heat index 10 degrees higher. Anyway, I read that Tiger is the first golfer to approach golf as a true sport, involving strenuous training and overall fitness. After winning the PGA, bringing his total championship wins to 13 (6 more to go to beat Jack Nicholas's 18), he said in a news conference that his physical fitness was one of the major factors that gave him the winning edge. "I felt as good heading onto the 18th hole as I did on the 1st." Anybody who has experienced a Tulsa summer will understand how amazing that is!

Chris was able to volunteer last week, selling ice cream for a non-profit group. He thought he died and went to heaven! He's really getting into golf since Liz re-introduced him to it. Liz worked at a golf course in Grand Rapids. She and Chris went out a few times when she was here and he's been teeing off ever since. He's pretty darn good too, considering he hasn't golfed in a loonnnnggg time. They talked me into going once and, well, we'll just say that I paid to play, but ended up watching since I was slowing us down so much and there were people behind us. I'm trying to get into this so Chris and I can play together but truly I decided the only thing more boring than playing golf is watching it :) I called Mary at the end and said, "I've been to hell and back" (quoting her comment in a call to her friend Gretchen as we were ending a mile-long hike in the woods a few weeks ago).

Anyway, back to Tiger. An amazing athlete and a true role model. How many athletes can win as much as he does and still have so many people cheering him on to win?

Thursday, August 09, 2007

Oh Blogspot!....

OK, they upgraded their templates and I've spent WAY TOO LONG moving all my links over. And now? I think I liked the old one better :) Thoughts anyone?

What in the heck are all those wrenches doing there? Edit icons, I know. Too big! The blog's feng shui has been greatly disturbed.

Next Day: Oh. The wrenches are only there in "customize" mode. :)

Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Sarah Has Started a Blog!

Sarah has started her blog (see sidebar)! She hasn't actually written anything yet, but heck, she has an address (and a blog in draft). She called today and sounded really good - she's learned so much on her trip, which is why she's starting the blog. She and Liz are going to meet up in Honduras on the 18th and call me! I can't wait.

Monday, August 06, 2007

Seven Minutes Before My Next Meeting

But this blog is short. Three of my five kids have blogs now (see links at left). A fourth is going to start one soon to share her thoughts about her trip to Central America. We may have to wait awhile for Mary - facebook will probably be her milieu for awhile as a new college student.

This is fun. I don't often get to share their more profound insights - I love it.

Saturday, August 04, 2007

I am David

I watched the best movie today on the Idependent Film Channel (550 on DirecTV) - I Am David. It's about a young boy who escapes from a Stalinist labor camp in Bulgaria and travels through Italy trying to get to Denmark where he's been told to deliver an important letter. It had strong themes about love and beauty. I liked it so much I ordered one and had it sent to Theresa (it had a message in it about trust that I thought she would appreciate right about now).

If I can figure out how this blog works I will post a list of my favorite movies. Chris and I are big movie fans - we go to one at least once a week.

Sunday, July 08, 2007

White Rose

I thought I might explain my "handle" on yahoo/blogspot - white rose. On my wedding day, a good friend of mine, Cindy, delivered to my home a vase with two red roses and one white rose. The two red roses represented Chris (my husband) and me. The white one, she said, is traditionally a symbol of God. His presence. Love.

Roses generally are very meaningful to me. St. Therese of Lisieux, has been my best friend since I was about 4. Never mind that she died in 1897 at the age of 24. As a Catholic I perceive the inhabitants of heaven as an extension of my spiritual community. I have my own personal cheering section up there consisting of St. Therese, her parents, and my parents. Back to the roses. Therese promised on her deathbed to send a shower of roses from heaven to earth. Our little family has prayed Rose Novenas for years. The roses we've received have been nothing short of miraculous.

Just a partial list:
  • a rose growing on a bush in front of our parish - in December in Ohio
  • a rose hand delivered to me by a friend
  • a rose left in our mailbox
  • a dozen purple roses delivered by mistake to our home instead of the neighbor's
  • a rose handed to my daughter (for whom the novena was offered) at a School Board meeting
  • handed to me by another daughter at her 8th grade graduation
  • another one handed to another daughter by a neighbor boy who said, "Give this to your mom" which was then put in a vase and placed in our bedroom by the babysitter (this, in response to a request for a "personal" rose - one I would know was especially for me)
All of these roses came to us on the 5th day of 5 day novenas to St. Therese.

My favorite story is when my friend, Lisa, who had been praying rose novenas for years, many of them for a husband (as a matter of fact my rose in the mailbox was in response to a novena for a husband for her), went canoing with a man she had been dating. They saw a rose float by in the water, then another and another until she had collected 12 roses from the water. Neither she nor her friend knew where they had come from. Shortly after, they pulled over to a spot and her boyfriend presented her with a diamond and proposed to her.

Roses - what a gift.

The Novena

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Independence Day

It's my 52nd birthday tomorrow. I'm starting a time in my life that I'm really excited about. I'm sad too, since my nest is emptying, with the youngest of our five children going to college in the Fall. But mostly I'm excited.

My nest is not empty. It's full. It's full of memories. Full of laughter. Full of plans for the future. Full of hope. Full of satisfaction and gratitude for a life filled with blessings, a life marked by decisions covered in prayer. Full of love. Full, at times, with the children now grown, readily accepted within the context of a miniature culture of life. Full of life. Full of God. In some ways it's more full than when it was full.

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Meanderings on a Sunday Night

Let's see if this works. I'm blogging from Nordaggio's and the posting page is in Chinese.

Theresa just left today. It's so sad to see the kids leave after they visit. Sarah is leaving on Wednesday for more than a month. And let's not think about Elizabeth's 2 years in Honduras...

We had a weekend filled with fun, though - lots of garage sales, Spoons, and watching 24. And some stress.

I'm trying to get some work done before starting the week tomorrow, but I'm getting very distracted - reading the Peace Corps sites Liz is finding, playing Spider Solitaire, watching the always interesting exploits of Sarah's friend Amy as she tries to deliver an iced coffee to her friend.

A grateful list to start the week:
  • Our family - the kids were such a support to me this weekend as I dealt with a difficult situation
  • 24 - Doggone, I love that show. It's so well crafted and tightly executed.
  • The Lord's willingness (more - desire!) to be a part of every moment of my life. I've told Chris to let me know when he's dropping me off at work if he sees a bearded man standing outside with a long robe and sandals. That will mean that I once again left God out of my workday. I'm working on that - falling flat on my face without Him helped the motivation quite a bit!!
  • Sarah's trip - I'm trying to be grateful for that anyway. It will be a great opportunity, but I'm concerned for her safety in Columbia. It's been in the news lately. A lot of political unrest with bombings in Bogata (where she'll be). Dear Lord, let her have a clear knowledge of your will for her and the power to carry it out.
  • Our visit with our friends the Craites last week - what a wonderful time.
OK, back to work.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

I'm Getting Better!

Look at this! Only 2 months between blog entries!!!

Actually, Theresa is inspiring me. I have her blog up every day as a tab on my Firefox so I can remember to look at it (and remember where it is!). I've found her entries vvveerrrryyy interesting. Quite an amazing kid, ain't she?

I was getting stressed here at work and I said to myself, "Self, relax. Instead of yet one more time shoving lunch down and getting back to work, take a break." And look - this is what I found. I would say I'm going to do this more often, but I think there's a pretty darn good chance that my next log-in will be in December. So - no promises, one day at a time...

GENERAL MEANDERINGS:
Four of the five kiddos will be home as of tomorrow and I CAN'T WAIT. I'm going to take Friday off and we will go garage saling and generally have a wonderful girls time out.

I read Monica Madden's blog yesterday and was delighted. Those Madden kids are amazing. It's a good thing they have the same mix of 4 girls and 1 boy or our family's kids might have married and taken over the world :) It was so fun to read Pam and John's entries. Next time I will enter one myself, now that I know my new sign-in.

Liz and I had a great, long talk last night, curled up on easy chairs at my favorite coffee spot - Nordaggio's. I love that place.

Well, enough for now. See you in December!

Sunday, April 15, 2007

2 Years Later

:) Here I am again. This time I didn't forget I had a blog, I forgot where it was! (alright - you Noble kids. if you're reading this I don't want to hear about it!!)

Anyway, I tried to comment on my daughter Theresa's blog and when I signed in low and behold it said I had a blog (alright - it said I had 2, but who's counting?). I like this one the best so here I am.

I'm sitting in a hotel room after missing a flight due to an airline that ought to close down now before someone puts it out of its misery (hostile takeover? postal employee? bankruptcy?). US Airways - we should wonder when a company changes its name. Never a good sign. Plus Sarah lost her luggage on that airline and had a terrible experience. I'm in Philadelphia for Parent's Weekend at her school and as we were walking to my car she asked what airline I was flying. "What?" she cried. "I can't believe you're using them. I know they're cheaper but I would pay $200 more in order to fly a different airline." YOU WERE RIGHT SARAH!!!

I arrived an hour before my flight to find approximately 60-70 people in line (no kidding). There were five slow and disgruntled agents to serve them. I waited and waited, watching the minutes slip away as agents became available and they sat there waiting for the next customer to realize there was an open spot. "GO!!!" I wanted to scream. But alas it wouldn't have made enough difference to enable me to catch my flight, which had called for final boarding just as I walked up to my agent.

Afterward I saw that the First Class area had 4 agents working with no line. And the electronic check ins (I couldn't use them due to a dual airline deal - United and USAir) had 7 agents and NO LINE!! Is there no one in charge? Sarah - if this wasn't enough - you should have seen the billboard on the way to the airport: "US Airways - Angry Pilots, Disgruntled Employees, Unfair Employer. Signed, The Pilot Union"

Well! That feels better. These blogs serve quite a purpose in this world!

BTW, I noticed there were more comments on my 2 year old blogs. One of them said, "I enjoyed your blog, etc." I smiled - finally someone visited me! Then I realized - it was another spam blog!